HOW TO CONNECT WITH A WOMAN

Men and women can be different in the ways that they like to express and receive love. We all want our relationship to be great, but knowing what makes out partner happy can be a challenge. Women have different requirements than men when it comes to them feeling happy and content in a relationship.

To connect with and create deeper intimacy with a woman: 

1. Make space for and listen to a woman’s emotions. If a woman wants a man’s advice, she will ask for it. Women want their emotions validated so they feel heard. Men do not have to agree with their partner—validation is enough. This process keeps emotions flowing rather than stuck in the body. Empathy (not necessarily agreeing with but trying to see things from someone else’s perspective) makes women feel valued.
2. Recognise that when she has very strong emotions, disproportionate to the situation, it can be, due to an unresolved traumatic event from the past. It is possible to heal these emotions when they are met with a man’s unconditional love. This may be the first time in a woman’s life that she has experienced unconditional love.
3. Create quality times with her to let her know she is loved and appreciated. Busy periods can strain relationships. Make togetherness time a priority and schedule everything else around that. For example. my husband and I go for a swim in the ocean and have coffee together every morning. We treasure this time as it has a lovely positive energy that underpins the rest of our day.
4. Make her feel like she is your number one priority even when you are apart. Schedule a few times a day, to text, email or phone call—it only takes minutes, yet maintains a beautiful loving bond between you. Often, my husband calls me just to say hello. I know he is busy, and I appreciate the time he has taken, to let me know that he’s thinking about me.
5. Show her she is number one by spending time with her, without any electronic distractions. Actions speak louder than words.
6. Shower her with appreciation—women can be super busy—juggling the house, children, career, and social lives just to name a few things. Heartfelt and specific appreciation goes a long way in creating a warm and loving relationship.
7. Spending quality time together away from your daily routine can take a relationship to a whole new level. An overnight stay or weekend away can give you both to time to reconnect at a deep level. Periods of intense busyness can be mitigated by finding moments to spend intensive time together.
8. Practice five kind gestures that show you care, like a kiss before work or a playful note. Simple things can have a big impact in keeping love alive and flowing for a woman.
9. Be a strong, yet kind and gentle man. Having strength but choosing to be gentle is a very appealing quality that will allow a woman’s heart to blossom. She will feel safe, in the company of someone she loves.
10. Always act with honesty and integrity. Women melt into these qualities, as they relax knowing that their partner is not going to play games with them or hurt them. How safe a woman feels with a man is directly proportional to how much she will open up her heart and surrender into an intimate relationship.

Tuning into and understanding your partners specific feminine needs is well worth the time and effort as it  can create newfound harmony and happiness in your relationship.